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		<title>How To Choose The Right Evenflo Infant Car Seats For Your Children</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a responsible mom or dad, you need to guarantee the safety of your baby in any situation, especially when you are on the road, traveling in your car. It is crucial that you understand how important an infant car seat is to protect your child from any potentially dangerous circumstance. You need to take [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a responsible mom or dad, you need to guarantee the safety of your baby in any situation, especially when you are on the road, traveling in your car. It is crucial that you understand how important an infant car seat is to protect your child from any potentially dangerous circumstance. You need to take into account that it is quite impossible for you to keep a watch of your baby when you are driving, especially when he or she is in the backseat and you are alone. That is why infant car seats can make sure your little one is safe and comfortable there.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>There are some relevant aspects you should have in mind when choosing the infant car seat for your baby. The market offers you a huge variety of brands, models and prices. It is strongly recommended that you pay more attention to those of recognized brand names. Their cost may be a little higher than others, but you will never feel sorry for your choice.  To choose the perfect <strong>Evenflo infant car seat</strong> for you child you should consider three fundamental sides: safety, design and comfort. None of them can be ignored if you want to make a successful acquisition for your family.</p>
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<p>The most important is the safety issue, because this is the reason why you considered buying the car seat in the first place. Make sure it has a 5 point infinite slide harness adjust, so your baby can be securely fit and can not be displaced in case of any violent movement. Besides, an accurate harness adjustment will prevent your kid from climbing out of the car seat while you are driving. The infant car seat should be also properly locked with the car seatbelt, so it can not be moved around when the road is a bit irregular.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The way the infant car seat is designed is quite relevant as well. First of all, you should focus on those <strong>Evenflo infant car seat</strong>s which can actually fit in your car. There is no point in buying a giant one if it can not be installed inside of your vehicle. In addition, you should check that the size of the infant car seat matches the size of your baby, so he or she can fit perfectly and have a happy trip. And you should remember that if your kid gets used to traveling in a comfortable way, he or she will not need to move unnecessarily.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>As regards to comfort, it is really important that your child can be at ease in her or his car seat. The <strong>Evenflo infant car seat</strong>s have a superior padding and a full coverage canopy to shade baby from every angle. Besides, body and toddler pillows are removable, so they can be placed so your child can travel in a correct posture and do not have any body aches. The fabric of the infant car seat should not cause any irritation to your son or daughter, and there should not be any rough or sharp parts which could cause any injury.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>A safe ride for you and your little one is guaranteed in the <strong>Evenflo infant car seat</strong>.</p>
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		<title>Flying With Kids &#8211; Why You Should Take Your Car Seat When You Fly With Children</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do You Really Need To Take The Car Seat With You? In a word, Yes. SAFETY Consider what the FAA website states about flying with kids, &#8220;FAA strongly urges parents and guardians to secure children in an appropriate restraint based on weight and size. Keeping a child in a Child Restraint System or device during [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Do You Really Need To Take The Car Seat With You?</strong></p>
<p>In a word, <strong>Yes</strong>.</p>
<p><strong>SAFETY</strong></p>
<p>Consider what the FAA website states about flying with kids, &#8220;FAA strongly urges parents and guardians to secure children in an appropriate restraint based on weight and size. Keeping a child in a Child Restraint System or device during the flight is the smart and right thing to do.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>COMFORT</strong></p>
<p>Use the car seat your child is already comfortable in. Flying with kids involves a lot of change and disruption&#8230;you can help them be as comfortable as possible by bringing the familiar car seat. Happy Child = Fun Trip</p>
<p><strong>YEAH, BUT I HAVE TO BUY AN EXTRA TICKET</strong></p>
<p>Consider whether you really want your child to be on your lap the entire flight. The days of counting on an empty seat are over. In their attempt to stay financially afloat, airlines are eliminating routes and trying to maximize the number of passengers on each flight.</p>
<p><strong>TIP:</strong> Ask your airline for a discounted fare when flying with kids. Many airlines now offer discounts of up to 50 percent for children less than two years of age.</p>
<p><strong>RENTAL AND UNFAMILIAR CAR SEATS</strong></p>
<p>If you decide to leave the child seat at home, what will you use at your destination? Getting a car seat from a car rental agency can be a problem. Cleanliness is often an issue</p>
<p>- It&#8217;s hard to know if you have the rental agency car seat installed and adjusted properly &#8211; Confirm, confirm, confirm your child seat reservation with the car rental agency</p>
<p><strong>TIP:</strong> If you don&#8217;t want to rent a child seat through a car rental agency or need to rent other types of baby equipment, there are many baby equipment rental companies you can find on the Internet.</p>
<p><strong>ONE OTHER POSSIBILITY</strong></p>
<p>Some of you may have heard of the CARES: Child Aviation Restraint System. It is the only harness restraint ever approved by the FAA. It weighs about 1 pound and is basically a small harness the child uses while in the airplane seat (not to be confused with the lap harness type restraint that is not recommended by the FAA). CARES Is a good product, but&#8230;your child will still need their own airplane seat and a seat for driving upon arrival. Some parents take CARES on board for the airplane seat and check the car seat as luggage. But, that still requires carrying the seat through the airport and putting it into some type of protective bag/case to keep it clean and intact. I still much prefer having my kids in their own familiar car seats on the plane, especially since I would have to buy the CARES and a protective bag for checking the seat as luggage.</p>
<p><strong>USE A CAR SEAT CARRIER</strong></p>
<p>My preferred method for taking the car seat when flying with kids is to use a backpack style car seat carrier.</p>
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		<title>How To Choose The Right Combi Car Seats For Your Children</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Apr 2011 13:14:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Parenthood is mostly about taking care of your children. So, you need to guarantee the safety of your baby in any situation, especially when you are on the road, traveling in your car. It is crucial that you understand how important an infant car seat is to protect your child from any potentially dangerous incident. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Parenthood is mostly about taking care of your children. So, you need to guarantee the safety of your baby in any situation, especially when you are on the road, traveling in your car. It is crucial that you understand how important an infant car seat is to protect your child from any potentially dangerous incident. You need to take into account that it is quite impossible to you to watch your baby when you are driving, principally when he or she is in the backseat and there is no one else there with you. That is the reason why infant car seats can make sure your little one is safe and comfortable with only one product.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>There are some significant issues you should have in mind when you are about to pick an infant car seat for your baby. The market offers you a huge variety of brands, models and prices. It is strongly recommended that you pay more attention to those of recognized brand names. Their cost may be a little higher than others, but you will never regret your decision.  To choose the perfect Combi car seat for you child you should consider three fundamental aspects: safety, design and comfort. None of them can be ignored if you want to make a successful acquisition for your family.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The safety issue is the most important and that is the reason why you considered buying the car seat in the first place. The <strong>Combi car seats</strong> come with a 5 point harness, so your baby can be securely adjusted and can not be displaced in case of any fierce bump. Besides, an accurate harness tuning will prevent your kid from climbing out of the car seat while you are driving. The infant car seat should be also properly locked with the car seatbelt, so it can not be moved around when the road is a bit rough.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>How the car seat is designed is also quite important. First thing to begin with, you should center your attention on those <strong>Combi car seats</strong> which can actually fit in your car. There is no point in buying a giant one if it can not be installed inside of your vehicle. In addition, you should check that the size of the infant car seat matches the size of your baby, so he or she can fit perfectly and have a happy trip.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>And that leads us to the third main aspect: comfort. It is imperative that your child can be at ease in her or his car seat. The <strong>Combi car seats</strong> have a superior padding and a full coverage canopy to shade baby from every angle and to provide her or him an appropriate amount of cool air. What is more, seats cushions are machine-washable and completely removable, so they can be placed so your child can travel in a correct posture and do not have any body aches. The fabric of the infant car seat should not cause any irritation to your son or daughter, and there should not be rough or sharp parts which could cause any injury.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>You can relax now; safe rides for you and your little one are assured in a Combi car seat.</p>
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		<title>Your Children Must Always be in Car Seats</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Too often I see children standing up in cars, looking out the back window or just sitting on laps. Don&#8217;t parents know that in an accident the body of an unrestrained child becomes a projectile, bouncing around the interior of the car? A child can be thrown from the car or through a window or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>              Too often I see children standing up in cars, looking out the back window or just sitting on laps. Don&#8217;t parents know that in an accident the body of an unrestrained child becomes a projectile, bouncing around the interior of the car? A child can be thrown from the car or through a window or windshield and fatally injured, and occupants of the vehicle can be hurt by a child impacting their heads or necks. Apparently, some people still have not gotten the message.</p>
<p>Are car seats too expensive? Or are people just plain lazy?</p>
<p>There are different types of car seat, usually varying depending on the size, age or weight of the child. Remember to buy a new car seat &#8211; old car seats may not have the latest safety features or may have been compromised in an accident.</p>
<p>Infant car seats &#8211; only face the rear; usually used in the back seat; may be used as an infant carrier and may be attachable to a stroller.</p>
<p>Convertible car seats &#8211; Used in the rear; when your child gets older may change into a forward-facing car seat or even a booster seat.</p>
<p>Booster seats &#8211; the last step before your child can wear a regular seat belt; used with the car&#8217;s seatbelt.</p>
<p>It is important that you follow the manufacturer&#8217;s instructions about how to attach the car seat. Also, you always want to send in the car seat&#8217;s registration form, so you are notified if the manufacturer recalls the seat for any defect. If your child is wearing a heavy coat, make certain that the harness straps are tight. Make sure to tighten the straps when your child wears lesser outerwear (when the weather warms up). Some safety agencies recommend removing your child&#8217;s outerwear in the car, so that the child can be fastened securely into the car seat.</p>
<p>Do not re-use a car seat after a serious accident &#8211; one that causes severe damage to the car. Get a new one.</p>
<p>Common car seat mistakes:</p>
<p>Placing child in wrong size car seat for his weight/size;</p>
<p>Placing a rear-facing car seat in the front seat of the car;</p>
<p>Not making sure the harness is tightened correctly;</p>
<p>Positioning the harness chest clip incorrectly;</p>
<p>Not using the latch correctly.</p>
<p>Not just a safety issue, it&#8217;s the law. Below I summarize New York Vehicle and Traffic Law, Section 1229-c. For specific questions, consult the statute. No person shall operate a motor vehicle in this state unless:</p>
<p>(1) all back seat passengers under the age of four are restrained in a specially designed seat which is either permanently affixed or is affixed to such vehicle by a safety belt,</p>
<p>(2) all back seat passengers of such vehicle who are age four or older but under age seven are restrained in an appropriate child restraint system (+ combination lap and shoulder harness belts)</p>
<p>(3) all front seat passengers (a) under the age of sixteen are restrained by a safety belt; or (b) if they are under the age of four, by a specially designed seat which is either permanently affixed or affixed to such vehicle by a safety belt, or children who are age four or older but under age seven are restrained in an appropriate child restraint system (+ combination lap and shoulder harness belts)</p>
<p>The rule changes somewhat if: the passenger four or younger weighs more than 40 pounds, or if the car is not equipped with shoulder harness belts, or if all the lap and shoulder belts are already in use by other children in the car</p>
<p>No person shall operate a motor vehicle unless such person is restrained by an approved safety belt. No person sixteen years of age or over shall be a passenger in the front seat of a motor vehicle unless such person is restrained by an approved safety belt.</p>
<p>This section shall not apply to taxis, liveries, and buses other than school buses EXCEPT no person shall operate a school bus unless all passengers under the age of four are restrained in a specially designed detachable or removable seat, or another approved restraining device. </p>
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		<title>Understanding &amp; Dealing With Allergies in Your Children</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Studies have shown that more than 1 in 5 children suffer from allergies and you child might just be one as well. It&#8217;s important to understand child allergies and to be aware of the triggering factors within your child. Allergies are designed to protect us but sometimes our immune systems might take it a little [...]]]></description>
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<p>Studies have shown that more than 1 in 5 children suffer from allergies and you child might just be one as well. It&#8217;s important to understand child allergies and to be aware of the triggering factors within your child.</p>
<p>Allergies are designed to protect us but sometimes our immune systems might take it a little too far and over-react to certain air-borne pollutants and food. When it occurs in young children, especially babies, they can be quite miserable indeed. The symptoms can be anywhere from a simple runny nose, to itchy eyes, stomach aches, rashes and eczema.</p>
<p>With child allergies becoming more and more common these days, we need to learn how to deal with it as part of live. Recent statistics are showing that the number of child allergies are on the rise and &#8220;Anaphylaxis&#8221;, a severe allergic reaction that occurs where the blood pressure drops and breathing becomes quite difficult is increasing as well.</p>
<p>While small children can be allergic to many things, food is by far the most common factor.  Foods such as eggs, nuts, soy, wheat and dairy are normally responsible for allergic reaction, especially when ingested for the first time by the child.</p>
<p>The most common signs that your child is allergic to a certain type of food might be the break of our a rash, hives or eczema. Stomach upsets and vomiting is not uncommon either. These symptoms are considered mild and for other more serious reactions like breathing difficulties, call an ambulance right away &#8211; do not risk your child&#8217;s life by thinking that the reaction might subside soon.</p>
<p>Usually it is quite difficult to tell if your child&#8217;s reaction to a certain food will change as they grow older, but as seen in most cases, if the allergic reaction is mild it will generally remain that way. Overall, most children do outgrow these food allergies by the time they start attending school.  However, there are certain allergies like nuts, that people normally never outgrow and become life-long sufferers.</p>
<p>Other allergens such as grass, pet hair, mold and dust mites might cause allergies in children as well. The most common symptoms are runny noses, sneezing and itchy red eyes. Child allergies can also spawn from bee stings or insect bites which can result in a mild rash to the more severe breathing difficulties. Do consult your doctor with regards to what to do should these events occur.</p>
<p>In conclusion, although it is not possible to actually prevent allergies in your children, you can help them by educating them on what the allergic triggers are, so that they know how to avoid allergens when possible.</p></div>
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		<title>The Importance of Crystal-Clear Rules for your Child</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The world is a far more scary and complicated place than it was when you were a child.  As a result, it&#8217;s imperative that you set adequate yet fair boundaries with your child.  It&#8217;s a very important role in your parenting responsibilities. Children must make difficult decisions each day, and if they don&#8217;t have clear, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The world is a far more scary and complicated place than it was when you were a child.  As a result, it&#8217;s imperative that you set adequate yet fair boundaries with your child.  It&#8217;s a very important role in your parenting responsibilities. Children must make difficult decisions each day, and if they don&#8217;t have clear, firm boundaries set, they may not always make the wisest choice.Limits teach children proper restraint in social and individual activities and provide children with necessary structure and security to assist in healthy development. Setting limits also provide children with guidance before they have an opportunity to get into trouble, thus making them more successful with everyday life.A child&#8217;s age and developmental level needs to be considered when setting limits. All children have a need for independence and individualization; however, they also need structure, security and parental involvement. It goes without saying that the needs of a 2-year old vary greatly than those of a teenager.A toddler has a strong desire to explore and investigate, but parameters need to be set to ensure their safety while doing so. Teenagers need to be able to be an individual and be independent, but with strong parental guidance and influence, are more likely to make smart choices in difficult situations.Limits should be discussed and set prior to the situation. Though situations arise that weren&#8217;t planned on, daily situations should have set limits and expectations. A teenager who breaks curfew may have the privilege of going out with friends revoked until they learn respect for the rules.  A child who misbehaves while playing with a friend may need to be separated from the fun until they can learn to properly behave.Children respond in a positive manner in an environment in which they know what to expect and what is excepted of them. A child will be more respectful towards rules and more willing to abide by them if the rules are clear and consistent.  Additionally, it&#8217;s crucial that once a limit is set that they caregiver stick to it.A child is less likely to try and manipulate a caregiver into changing the limits when their experience has been that there&#8217;s no bending on the limits.   And remember, you are the one who sets the limits and lays down the law.  There&#8217;s no need to argue with your child.  Be firm and consistent and they are less likely to challenge the rules and will accept the consequences.&#8211;
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		<title>You Can&#8217;t Spoil a Child Through Love</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Though we all worry about spoiling our child, rest assured that you cannot spoil your child with love. Love doesn&#8217;t spoil children. Love is imperative to a child&#8217;s healthy development, and it&#8217;s just not possible to love your child too much. They need caring adults to spend time with them, play with them, teach them, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Though we all worry about spoiling our child, rest assured that you cannot spoil your child with love. Love doesn&#8217;t spoil children. Love is imperative to a child&#8217;s healthy development, and it&#8217;s just not possible to love your child too much. They need caring adults to spend time with them, play with them, teach them, protect them, and enjoy life with them.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a parent&#8217;s job to provide love, safety and encouragement. The process of growing up provides children with lots of challenges. Try to listen openly and understand their situation and communicate honestly with them when they have difficulties and letdowns in their life.</p>
<p>Set appropriate limits with your child and then adhere to them. Establishing limits with your child gives them a sense of safety and security.  Sometimes parents do not set limits because they don&#8217;t want to fight with their children. They don&#8217;t want to cause bad feelings. They may beg a child to comply. Or they may make a rule and fail to enforce it. They may nag without ever enforcing the rules. None of these helps children. When your child fails to adhere or comply with the boundaries you&#8217;ve set for them, be firm yet kind in your response. This lets them know that you&#8217;re serious about the rule but dedicated to helping and loving them.  Bear in mind though that each child is different and what works for one child may not work for another.  For example, one child may respond well to the direct approach of telling them a specific time to be home, where another child may need a gentle reminder that it&#8217;s now time to come home.</p>
<p>Develop a firm but kind manner of making and enforcing your household&#8217;s rules and expectations.  There&#8217;s no need to fear our children, and there should be no need to instill a sense of fear in our children in order to get them to comply.</p>
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		<title>Time to Listen Your Child</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 01:19:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Communicating with our children can be a difficult task at times.  We feel like they&#8217;re not listening to us; they feel like we&#8217;re not listening to them.  Good listening and communications skills are essential to successful parenting.  Your child&#8217;s feelings, views and opinions have worth, and you should make sure you take the time to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Communicating with our children can be a difficult task at times.  We feel like they&#8217;re not listening to us; they feel like we&#8217;re not listening to them.  Good listening and communications skills are essential to successful parenting.  Your child&#8217;s feelings, views and opinions have worth, and you should make sure you take the time to sit down and listen openly and discuss them honestly.</p>
<p>It seems to be a natural tendency to react rather than to respond.  We pass judgment based on our own feelings and experiences.  However, responding means being receptive to our child&#8217;s feelings and emotions and allowing them to express themselves openly and honestly without fear of repercussion from us.  By reacting, we send our child the message that their feelings and opinions are invalid.  But by responding and asking questions about why the child feels that way, it opens a dialog that allows them to discuss their feelings further, and allows you a better understanding of where they&#8217;re coming from.  Responding also gives you an opportunity to work out a solution or a plan of action with your child that perhaps they would not have come up with on their own.  Your child will also appreciate the fact that maybe you do indeed understand how they feel.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s crucial in these situations to give your child your full and undivided attention.  Put down your newspaper, stop doing dishes, or turn off the television so you can hear the full situation and make eye contact with your child.   Keep calm, be inquisitive, and afterwards offer potential solutions to the problem.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t discourage your child from feeling upset, angry, or frustrated.  Our initial instinct may be to say or do something to steer our child away from it, but this can be a detrimental tactic.  Again, listen to your child, ask questions to find out why they are feeling that way, and then offer potential solutions to alleviate the bad feeling.</p>
<p>Just as we do, our children have feelings and experience difficult situations.  By actively listening and participating with our child as they talk about it, it demonstrates to them that we do care, we want to help and we have similar experiences of our own that they can draw from.  Remember, respond &#8211; don&#8217;t react.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Because&#8221; Just Isn&#8217;t the Answer</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 05:10:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Children are inquisitive by nature.  When they are younger, it&#8217;s usually because they want to better understand something.  When they are older, it&#8217;s because they want to better understand why you think something is important and why they should also feel the same way.  Regardless of their age, it&#8217;s imperative that when setting forth the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Children are inquisitive by nature.  When they are younger, it&#8217;s usually because they want to better understand something.  When they are older, it&#8217;s because they want to better understand why you think something is important and why they should also feel the same way.  Regardless of their age, it&#8217;s imperative that when setting forth the rules and expectations in your home, your child understands there is no room for questioning the rules you set forth and the consequences of breaking the rules.</p>
<p>Younger children usually do not understand a lengthy explanation of why it&#8217;s important that they be home from their friend&#8217;s home at a certain time or why they aren&#8217;t allowed to play ball in the house.  But the one thing they do strive to do most of the time is to make their parents proud and happy.  So when a young child asks &#8220;Why?&#8221; or &#8220;Why not?&#8221; when they are told they can&#8217;t play with something or someone or why they have to obey a rule you&#8217;ve set forth, simply explain to them that &#8220;because it makes me happy when you follow the house rules and do what I have asked of you.&#8221;  You should avoid using the term, &#8220;Because I said so,&#8221; as that only adds to the child&#8217;s frustration and confusion.</p>
<p>Older children, adolescents and teenagers alike will probably require more from your explanation.  When they question &#8220;Why?&#8221; or &#8220;Why not?&#8221; it&#8217;s best to directly, honestly and clearly state your reasoning.  &#8220;I asked you to be home by 10 p.m. because we have to be at the dentist&#8217;s office first thing in the morning for your check-up and we can&#8217;t be late.&#8221;  It is also a great opportunity for you to reiterate the consequences of breaking the rule.  &#8220;If you are not home by 10 p.m., you&#8217;ll be grounded from going to your friend&#8217;s house for a week.&#8221; Be consistent, be firm, and be clear.</p>
<p>Though your child may challenge you by asking your reasoning why a rule has been put in place, it also shows their growth as an individual thinker.  So try not to get angry or frustrated when they do so; realize it&#8217;s their way of understanding their world around them.</p>
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